Someone in my close family is addicted to alcohol and wanted to stop drinking. We often heard that things were going well. Deep down we felt, and knew, that this wasn't true, but we had nothing to go on. Only when things got really bad did it come to light. By then, they had already slipped a long way.
As a family we all wanted to be there. But wanting to help is not the same as knowing how. The person in recovery felt alone, and we felt powerless. That's why I created Sobreasy. These are the problems we ran into, and what Sobreasy changes.
We didn't know how things were really going.
"I'm fine" is easy to say. With a breath test on video, the person in recovery shows how things are going, at fixed moments you agree on together. The circle sees at a glance how many days someone has been sober and how the last test went. That way a relapse comes to light much sooner, and you're there in time.
Support was scattered.
We don't live around the corner from each other. One of us called, another sent a message, and nobody knew what the others already knew. Now we're together in one group chat, where messages reach everyone instantly.
Asking for help was hardest at the hardest moment.
Right before things go wrong, nobody types a long message. That's why there's the I'm struggling right now button. One tap, and the whole circle knows things are hard and can respond or take action straight away.
Well-meant checking felt like distrust.
Asking every time whether things are really okay damages something. With Sobreasy you don't have to, because the tests follow a fixed rhythm. And if the circle wants to know how things are in between, they ask for a check-in with one tap.
The waiting list for care was long.
A place at a clinic or other addiction care took a long time. I didn't want to just sit and wait, but to do something in the meantime. With Sobreasy, your circle can keep a finger on the pulse during that time.
I'm not a healthcare professional, and Sobreasy is not a replacement for professional care. Along the way I did talk to people working in addiction care, and their insights are built into the app, for example in how the button for hard moments works. We use Sobreasy every week, and it has brought us closer together as a family.
Sound familiar? You don't have to do this alone, and you don't have to wait until things go wrong. Support, not surveillance.
Friso, founder of Sobreasy